Be a Living Donor

“Surely the day is coming; it will burn like a furnace.  All the arrogant and every evildoer will be stubble, and the day that is coming will set them on fire,” says the Lord Almighty. “Not a root or a branch will be left to them.  But for you who revere my name, the sun of righteousness will rise with healing in its rays. And you will go out and frolic like well-fed calves.

  • Malachi 4:1-2

Until that day when everything will be made right, we must live in this world.

The photo is of our two youngest grandchildren and their new puppy.  They would rather be hugging their Oma (Grandma, my wife).

On my blog, I have written many times about my wife and her health problems.  She is now in end stage kidney failure as many of you know.  She is on dialysis, but her life expectancy will double, roughly, if she can get a kidney transplant.  In the Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania area, there is about a five-year wait for a suitable donor.  You know, when someone passes away, say from an automobile accident, and the medical personnel at the scene notice that they elected to place “ORGAN DONOR” on their driver’s license.  There are so many people on the waiting list, it takes five years to reach the top, and then there must be a decent match.  That is blood type (with some variations), leukocyte antibodies and leukocyte antigens.  There are other factors that might make the organ unsuitable.

And sadly, as my wife approaches the top of the list, there will be the hope / despair cycle.  A kidney becomes available, and you may not be at the top of the list, but they put you into “ready mode” in case the person in front of you is sick and cannot go into surgery.  That might bump you up and you must be ready.  So, here you get prepared, but the other person is well enough, and you got your hopes up and now you are back, waiting again.

What can end that cycle, and provide a normally scheduled surgery, is if there is someone who will be willing to donate a kidney.

If you would like to donate a kidney to my wife, you may register at:  Be sure to identify the person that you are donating for as Catharina Rackley, and please get the spelling correct.

And if you wish to donate a kidney, there are a number of things that you should know:

  • Testing to see if you are a match takes about 3 days.
  • The expenses for the tests are paid by the recipient’s insurance, not the donor’s insurance.
  • Kidneys can be donated without letting the recipient know who is donating.
  • If you are not a match, you may be a match for another person in the area and a “Paired Donor Exchange” may be possible (aka kidney swap) with two recipients and two donors all going into surgery at the same time.  That assumes that the other person has a donor that is a good match.
  • The surgery takes only four hours and recovery takes 1-2 days.  There are rarely complications afterwards and no donor has ever died at UPMC.  Dying by donating a kidney is rare (0.03% nationally), less than three deaths in 10,000 donors.
  • Through the National Living Donor Assistance Center (NLDAC), the donor and the donor’s caregiver can be reimbursed for travel expense and living expenses (hotel and food) up to a certain limit.
  • Normal activity (such as, lifting more than 10 pounds) may be resumed in six weeks after surgery.  If at a light duty job, maybe a little sooner.

We are looking for someone who can provide a kidney.  You could be the one.

As Malachi wrote, the sun of righteousness will rise with healing in its rays. And you will go out and frolic like well-fed calves.”

And here is the important thing, if you are ineligible to donate a kidney or you do not wish to do so at this time, you can become a Living Donor Champion by simply Sharing this link on Facebook or Twitter or by Reblogging on WordPress.

Please, Share or Reblog – You may save a life.  And if you wish to donate, use the website above to register.

Soli Deo Gloria.  Only to God be the Glory.


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  1. May 12, 2021 — 10:11 am

    I’m praying that a kidney bcomes available for your wife soon, so that he anxiety and patience level is reduced for both of you. May God also continue to map out your lives together and be with you through the good and bad times, through sickness and health. I know He will answer our prayers.

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  2. Mark, Such a hard, gut wrenching place to be!! We have been through this a few years ago with my daughter, who was 21 at the time, when she unknowingly fell sick with a bad heart from a common cold virus that turned on her heart. She had to have a heart transplant and we’ve been in contact with the donor’s father. It was, and is, such a bitter/sweet thing for the donor’s father to share his 18 year old daughter’s organs. Yet, he chose to share part of the life of his precious daughter’s organs after a tragic accident and thus brought life to many others. May the Lord, in His infinite mercy, be with you and your wife, and with organ donors and families!

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  3. I hope your wife will find a donor; just prayed; any updates?

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